Category Archives: Divorce of Love

Chapter 6 – Moving Out “You’re not perfect, sport.” — Robin Williams, Good Will Hunting Joke: A friend of mine who was going through a separation—but still living under the same roof as his wife—once told me, “It’s gotten bad. … Continue reading →

“I might be living on tequila and hate, but I’m living!” — Dan Cummings, comedian After two years of marriage counseling before our divorce, I can honestly say I learned more about myself—and my former wife—during those sessions than in … Continue reading →

“Don’t believe everything you think. Thoughts are just that—thoughts.” — Allan Lokos, Pocket Peace Like many people going through deep loss, I found myself caught in a mental loop—playing the same painful thoughts over and over in my head. Each … Continue reading →

“When nothing is certain, everything is possible.” — Margaret Drabble For me, a deep part of the sorrow came not just from the end of the relationship, but from what that ending represented: the collapse of a dream. I was … Continue reading →

Chapter 2.  The Beginning  Looking back, it almost feels like my divorce was meant to unfold exactly the way it did—so I could learn the most about myself. Or maybe that’s just the awareness I had to hold onto during … Continue reading →

“Ah, yes, divorce… from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet.” —Robin Williams Robin Williams has always cracked me up. Funny how I laugh now, but when I was going through my divorce, nothing … Continue reading →